Friday, May 28, 2010

New Shack

Hola!

SO I'm planning on blogging a lot more and I've been looking at some other blog sites to see how they stack up to Blogger and I'm thinking of moving over to WordPress. I have posted two entries there today and I really like it.

So basically, from now on, that's where I'll be writing. If I really hate it I'll transfer it back over here, but I'm hoping it will go well there, and that once I develop it to what I want it for, I will host it as megnorris.com (which I own but sadly has no home at the moment).

In any case, subscribe to me there if you'd like (it has a nice little e-mail notification feature. I love that about WordPress) or not, and let me know what you think :)

Peace.

Thursday, May 27, 2010

a song about you and me : a draft.

there was a time when i
was so unknown
even within myself i felt
so alone
and you came into my world and you
made it my own
i have found myself in you

you gave me what i
needed more than you know
before you loved me i
was playing a role
and now that i've found me i
i'm so filled with hope
and i know what it's like to be me.

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i didn't know who i was before i met you.
i didn't have the confidence to be who i could be.
because you encourage and love me i know who i am.
because you love me, i love myself.
thanks baby.
i love you.

Monday, May 24, 2010

Social Reproduction Theory FO RLZ!

This is an except from a paper I wrote that I've realized, since gaining a little bit of teaching experience, is very, very true and evident among kids in a classroom. Plus I felt the need to add something to my blog and am not feeling particularly creative today.

Social reproduction theory can be defined as the transmission of values, attitudes, and skill sets from one generation to the next through various cultural logics of and systems of child rearing. Middle class families interact frequently with central societal institutions such as schools so it is no wonder that their strategy for raising children is the concerted cultivation of the attitudes and skills needed to succeed within that society. This practice is valued by these social institutions whereas as the working class strategy of child rearing, the “accomplishment of natural growth” (Lareau 350) becomes devalued as it is out of sync with the standards of these institutions.

Middle class parents tend to expose their children to a wide variety of activities and situations so as not to miss out on opportunities for advancement within the culture. Through these varied experiences, as well as through imitation and direct training, middle class children learn the rules of society's game and how to make the rules work for them. This gives the children a sense of entitlement which allows them to negotiate with adults for special requests or accommodation. Working class children are often not raised in this way. In their view, authority figures have the final word and they tend to accept this without feeling entitled to negotiate for their personal benefit. This often leads to a sense of powerlessness or constraint.

Because working class children are often allowed to determine on their own how they will spend their leisure time, they have much less guidance in what is widely accepted within society and what skills and attitudes are valued. They also have much more free time. This likely plays a role in their choices of activities. While of course not all or even most working class children are involved in crime, as within every subculture, some are. Because they live in situations not seen as ideal by the dominant culture within society, this aspect becomes highlighted and plays a crucial role in the perception of, and identity development within, for example, the projects.

Middle class children’s activities are seen as much more valuable, as is the strategy of concerted cultivation which promises greater social and cultural capital (your personal social network and the familiarity and knowledge of the way a culture functions and the ability to make that system work to your advantage). Middle class parents also "try to stimulate their children’s development and foster their cognitive and social skills” (Lareau 352) and this, paired with these children’s frequent interaction with adults, makes them quite comfortable with adults. Bourdieu notes that children of the working class sometimes appear uncomfortable having an adult relate to them (Bourdieu 61).

Many of these children and teens have not had the opportunity to experience the way things work outside their culture, and also don’t have the social capital of middle class students. One implication of this is that they lack employment, and therefore the resources and support readily available to students of higer-income families.

Bourdieu, P. (et al.) (1999). With two young men from the north of France. In The Weight of the World: Social Suffering in Contemporary Societies. (pp. 61-76). Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press.

Lareau, A. (et al.) (2007). Unequal childhoods. In M. L. Andersen (Ed.), Race, Class, & Gender: An Anthology, Sixth Edition (pp. 348-358). Belmont, CA: Thompson Wadsworth.

This is just an edited excerpt from somewhere in the middle of my paper, but I decided to reread it and was almost surprised at just how true my words turned out to be (we all know what it's like to do partial research/partial analysis papers... usually on subjects we've no direct experience with. Just for the record, later in the paper I address that stereotypes, lack of resources and support, development of identity, and perceived expectations for success playing a large role in these outcomes, among a large number of other factors, so don't read this thinking that these were my only points, they're just the ones that weren't referring specifically to the case study I used to analyse the theories of social reproduction theory and stigma :)

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Speaking Against Homophobia




If there's going to be a shift in attitudes, it's going to be up to us to make it happen.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

I love my English methods class.

So throughout the semester in my Secondary English Language Arts Curriculum Practices class, also known as English Methods, we did all sorts of writing exercises that we might wish to do with our students in the future. Our professor, Susan, whom I adore, got us each to choose one of our pieces to polish , peer edit, and submit for a class publication. Today we had our 'publication party' and we each received a copy. Much to our delight, Susan had written her own piece, "Introducing the Authors."

It was a poem comprised of 17 limericks. She starts off with,

There once was a group of sixteen.
About writing, they were quite keen.
It's easy to see
These teachers-to-be
Will bring talent and passion rare seen.

And continued with a limerick about each of my classmates. It was really sweet because she took the time to think about each of us and make them personal. About me she wrote:

Meg's talent with tech is well-known.
To producing on YouTube she's prone.
When she has a class
Each laddie and lass
Their cyber-predilections will hone.

Best professor ever?

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Snapshot (another writing exercise)


Everyone was acting like it was a big deal or something. I didn't understand why, really. I mean this kind of thing happens all the time. I was really more concerned with whether any of those massive hats were going to topple off of those empty heads. That would be fun.

And then the really over-the-top one was all like, "This is a big day!" and I thought, "Oh, have we added hours? Is it bigger than yesterday? Or April 26, 1992?" But the sheep cheered anyway, and then it
really started...

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Skeletons. Sometimes I Fuck Up.

So today a friend of mine told me that she read my blog and was worried that my super pissy/annoyed/stupid first post was about her. It wasn't. And I told her that. But that got me thinking about why I posted it in the first place. I was going to take it down, but I decided not to. I was obviously still really pissed off when I wrote it. And it would have been more appropriate in a diary.

But it got me thinking, why did that anger me so much? If the friend who was concerned I was talking about her had done it, it wouldn't have bothered me at all. I wouldn't have even thought anything of it. I probably would have thought "Oh, sweet! She unlocked new songs for me! Yusss!" But it wasn't her. It was someone who already annoyed me in the first place.

Then I started thinking about how people that annoy me can do nothing right in my mind. Whether it's the clothes they're wearing, the music they listen to, the opinions the vocalize, the way the speak, they way they walk, the way their hair just looks so 2002. *sigh* And not only am I horrible for thinking this way, the worst part is that if it was me or someone that I like doing exactly the same thing, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would shrug it off as 'everyone has an off day". I. am. SUCH a hypocrite.

I know I'm not the only person like this, but it really bothers me that I am this way. I know I can't help if certain people just bother me, sometimes for good reason, sometimes for completely invalid and superficial reasons, but I CAN help how I think of those people.

I'm sorry for being awful sometimes. I am only human. I hope you'll all still be friends with me. I promise I don't think of YOU in that way. :)

xx